A. Weak adolescent personality and Drugs
Since the instigation of President Susilo Bambang Yudhoyono via short message service (SMS) to stop the abuse and drug-related crime makes a parent should raise awareness of vulnerable adolescent drug abuse.
Main problem stems adolescents at puberty in adolescents and where they are also the days in the search idfentitas. They are experiencing an identity crisis due to be confused about where they will be grouped in social life, where they will be grouped confused. If they will be grouped to their teenage children still think of them but if they are grouped to the children they already consider them-they were teenagers. Search for identity is where they will be put on the social status and certainty in a world of their social interactions.
The extent to which adolescents can achieve his or her identity, depending on the extent to which adolescents are able to control emotion when you feel offended by someone in the vicinity; put themselves in a reasonable in relation to peers; obtain idol for the attainment of a stable identity, either in peer group (peer) or in the family; accept yourself what it is; control the intensity of emotions that are less favorable to compensate for these limitations through the achievements of the school / social.
In addition the extent to which able to control the soaring ambitions and dreams because of the increasing need for the development of socialization; recognize and have the opportunity to train a new biological control needs, in this case the sexual drive, without reducing the utilization of social environment in order to achieve optimum social skills; and feel get the sense and support parents and families in a state of vulnerability by the identity crisis.
If the answer to that question doubtful, then the teen will get caught up in the personal development of the "weak" and vulnerable to drug abuse. Barriers to the socialization process can be caused by internal factors (psychological) and external (physical).
Barriers in the socialization process is the manifestation of personality flaws that cause the function of emotional lability that stress tolerance levels were relatively low. It's easy to give up, lack of willpower, and low persistence in learning to overcome the problem. Adolescents are vulnerable to the influence of type of drug abuse.
Other causes:
Some other causes are the typical dynamics of the relationship between psychological factors and physical disadvantage youth. For example, the body is too fat or thin, closed stance, limited friends, school performance among moderate to less and less to the challenge.
Children of this type are usually lacking in confidence so prone to exploitation / bullying. Initially forced to give pocket money until finally forced to steal home. The results directly buy drugs and extortion are common, children are forced to try alcohol or drugs were purchased from the spoils / extortion earlier.
Also formed emotional closeness with another gang member and be the only child even though he was a member of the onion. Feeling must be received in the social environment, attitudes toward gangs loyal stronger. Whatever is asked a fellow gang will be met, whatever the victim. This condition is followed by an increase in the frequency of skipping school and valuables at home became less secure.
Several internal factors are similar to the above, but the membership of the gang obtained with a more flexible approach. For example, children are invited on a motorcycle, a motorcycle or be taught to play guitar, to then be the object of blackmail. For fear of losing friends to play, all the gang leader was asked if he met, including smoking and then using drugs.
Early pubertal adolescents showed less love learning, absenteeism, and like games like pachinko or other games that contain elements of gambling usually experience emotional dissatisfaction at home and unable to cope with adolescent problems and adolescent mental turmoil. He was frustrated and restless.
This situation is often backed family attitudes that are less time watching his teenage son and less to support the love and care for adolescents to resolve these adolescents. This frustration opportunities adolescent drug use as a way to resolve the problem. When the family finally find out, further reaction of the family is usually more profitable. That is, adolescents increasingly immersed in drug use as the way out the problem.
Teens who have predisposing conditions is essentially mental psychopath, meaning that from the age of 10-11 years is a long trip without planned, often "escape" from home, left without saying goodbye, penny pocket, and usually gets the money as loot. When the money runs out, he would return home with an air as if innocent.
Adolescents with psychopathic personality functioning tendency not hesitate to commit violent and threatening. Adolescents are also prone to the type of drug abuse as teenagers under the influence of drugs and antisocial feeling daring act of aggression has increased.
Therefore, beware of parents and families. Give support, love, and understanding the right to our teens not to get caught scope of the personal development of the weak and vulnerable to drug abuse.
B. Vulnerable Adolescents Affected by HIV / AIDS
Then the second problem is that teens about HIV / AIDS. Since cases of HIV / AIDS was first discovered in Bali in 1987, the growth rate of HIV / AIDS baseball go down. Even more astonishing, it turns out teens are always ranked first as the largest group of people living with HIV / AIDS compared with other age groups.
For those of us who are vulnerable of contracting HIV / AIDS as news above, will certainly be wondering, Why should our teens? Just answer a simple question, but do not simply attempt to handle.
During this time, many of us who do not realize that a lot of our behavior or actions are particularly at risk of contracting HIV / AIDS. For example, sex outside of marriage. There are still many among us who believe that sexuality is only a matter of virgin or virgin baseball. In fact, sex outside of marriage is quite risky to be a baseball safer sex even if done with his own girlfriend.
Baseball safer sex can lead to unwanted pregnancy (KTD). KTD is eventually could lead to other problems, physical, social, and mental. Another risk of having sex like this is a sexually transmitted infection (STI) that can cause infertility and make us more vulnerable to HIV / AIDS.
Our ignorance of our own behavior is at risk of contracting HIV / AIDS is that it triggers the possibility of contracting and even spread of HIV / AIDS among our friends. Even so, we are not the only party that is considered most at fault.
Access to Information
Reasonable hell wrote, if we do not know much about reproductive health and HIV / AIDS. Understandably, access to information about both of these, including the issue of medical services and consultations on the subject, is still very limited. If anything, seem less familiar to us. As a result, we are trying to find information in other media that are less educated, such as media sex pornography.
Among us, at least three important groups that are closest to our lives, the teacher, parent, and friends. Unfortunately, communication with the third party is not completely optimal. Especially with regard to issues of sexuality. There are several things that caused it.
First, there are many parent who restrict discussion of sexuality with a variety of reasons. Sexuality is considered a taboo issue. Finally, we failed to obtain information from the parent who should be closest to the source of our information.
Secondly, there are still teachers who tend to be rigid and berkomunikasinya way baseball is open. In fact, teachers have a wealth of information about reproductive health and HIV / AIDS. Differences with a youth friendly teacher. They certainly could be a place to vent.
Third, most of us consider the relationship with friends is the most ideal so much fun to talk about anything. Unfortunately, information from a friend often and wrongly proportioned baseball.
Permissive culture
Although we are not the only cause of the high incidence of HIV / AIDS in our environment, but a culture of permissiveness (permissive) among baseball we encourage safe sexual behavior and drug abuse is increasing. The impact is evident from the high incidence of HIV / AIDS, where the largest HIV transmission is through sexual contact that baseball is safe and injecting drug use.
In a discussion with some friends occasionally appear outright statement, ... Ah, if only trailer doang dating mah crisp, cool baseball baseball kiss, again. My friends also had a lot of that has really nookie (sex ed). I wrote nganggepnya fine fine-tuh.
In terms of health it was baseball that statement is true, especially of the religious norms and social norms. If the way we look towards the more permissive sexual behavior, it seems impossible number of people with HIV / AIDS among us will decline.
There are some things we can do to address this.
A. Create a media information about reproductive health and HIV / AIDS in schools, such as Mading, bbbbbbbbbbuletin, or small discussion groups to discuss issues of reproductive health and HIV / AIDS and drugs.
2. Wake up communication with the parent and teacher in a more open atmosphere. We are so baseball hesitate to make them a place to ask, as well as be a place to vent.
3. Keep away from the action or behavior that could be categorized as at risk for HIV / AIDS, both on our own or with other friends.
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